WORDS!!!!! BITCH.....what it connotes

Bitch, (insult) literally meaning a female dog, is a common slang term in the English language, especially used as a denigrating term applied to a person, commonly a woman. It often refers to someone who is belligerent, unreasonable, malicious, rudely intrusive or aggressive... It can also be spelled like Biotch, Beyotch, Beotch, etc.

In proverbs 18:21; the bible says that "death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits"... What fruit do you derive from the word bitch

A female dog can be perceived as being aggressive or difficult, and is increasingly used in reference to men perceived as weak or submissive, or to those who assume a subjugated role in a relationship, sexual or non-sexual, with a dominating male or female partner or partners.
A female dog is seen as a lewd woman which connotes "preoccupied with sex and sexual desires; lustful

Ephesians 4:29 says "do not let unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to, their needs that it may benefit those who listen.

Its original use as a vulgarism, documented to the fourteenth century, suggested high sexual desire in a woman, comparable to a dog in heat. In James 3:6, it says "the tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of ones life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell". So you words on your life can change the whole course of someone's life.

But the bible also gives a remedy saying in proverbs 16:24; gracious words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body...

It does not hurt to say the right and sweet words to yourself or someone who you cherish and call your friend...it not only speaks great of you, but makes you great

See, what you call your self and what you answer to....it changes everything around you.
Before you call or answer to any name...check it out with the word and it's meaning PLEASE I BEG OF YOU.
Read Matthew 15:18, Matthew 12:36, proverb 15:1,James 1:26, pals am 19:14, proverbs 29:20, proverbs 15:4

THE CREATOR...HIS MANUAL

How many of us have gotten hold of an appliance and had knowledge of how it works and its purpose without asking its producer..IMPOSSIBLE
The easiest way to know the purpose of an invention is to ask the creator. This is also applicable to us as humans, we are not our creators but we know our creator. He alone is permissible to know our purpose on earth, therefore no human has the right to limit our capability, because they are not our creators.

Life took a different toll when i came across this knowledge, it became clear to me that the words of man against my life or purpose are mere fallacies, because they have no say in my creation. I made a decision to let no man glory in my decisions but God who is my creator. i decided to seperate my critics from my friends. It took alot to decide on who I am to let go off, but the truth still remains that, the end result is better than the decision at the beginning. God then brings his book...THE BIBLE as a manual for your everyday progress.

Life has a way of teaching you some things in life, But God has a better way of showing you WHAT YOU NEED IN LIFE.. HE IS THE CREATOR OF YOU, NOT MAN

A MISFIT

We get so damaged that we take a lot of people down with us....We let the world term us "misfit", even when they were not the creator "THE WORLD".
They preach so much about fitting in, that you tend to be who you are not to please others...then you end up broken. You sink into the hurt so deep that you take permanent decisions for temporary situations. we fail to accept the fact that the hurt started from us; when we tried being like the world wanted us to be instead of what the word(the bible) see of us. we became what we were not to cover up the hurt we were having on the inside.

• the world says we are ugly.. but the Word says He created and made all things beautiful
• the world says we fall in love and out of it...but the Word says that we live in love...so how does that match up with the world
• the world says that there are hurts in a relationship... but the Word says that the life of God is like a sweet lullaby....how could u get hurt in a sweet sound
• the world says we are not accepted...but the Word says we are not of this world... so therefore we are not to be of this world but to make a change in this world
• the world says we are not making sense....but the Word says we live in faith
• the world says we are poor...but the Word says we live by faith and not by sight

We always find ourselves positions that we think that is the end of the road, and we forget the one who created the whole world and brought man into existence...that when he speaks, he brings things to existence...we trust the desires more than we trust God....we should trust the one who made us... because if he can make our hearts, he can change our hearts...the bible says if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature, old things are passed away...BEHOLD....ALL THINGS ARE BECOME NEW.....we are in this world ...BUT NOT OF THIS WORLD... don't let this world change the WORD IN YOUR LIFE

SILENT SCREAM OF THE HEART

So many souls are screaming out from deep within,shouting for help,due to the fact of being neglected and judged,being taken as an outsider. Souls die each day within, with each judgmental word you render deep down your heart.

So many people run to friends, that teach then how to change from who they were to who aren't in order to fit into the system. They pretend to be all good on the outside but initially they struggle to be loosed from the shackles of the counterfeiting message.

Some others run to the church and yet they feel judged by the incoming sighs, side talks, and strange looks looking at them with disgust of "what kind of person is that?"
A church is meant to be a place for every soul, no segregation or specificity. Remember the bible says "come boldly to the throne of grace where you will find mercy".

It's high time we stop preaching "fitting in" because we get to send a counterfeiting message across and push the ones we are reaching out to far away from us instead. The bible says "let your light so shine bright,so that the world can see the Glory of god in you".

Every human being fits into every society no matter what it is or what it is made up ......it is called STANDING OUT!!!!!!!!!

DECISIONS

So many people are where they are because of the decisions they made and stuck to. Some fell on positive results and others were just wrong steps taken...

Most a times we think we have seen it all and known it all but at the end, we get justified by our means.....
I have come to realize that the things that happen to us is based on what we have fed our soul with, the kind of information we think is right...but yet never still comfortable when doing it.....the media has shaped our minds on wrong perspectives to life situations, that we use them to rule our everyday life.

Please, take a time out and look at the lives of those who portray those characters, you will get to realize that they were all fantasies, just to satisfy the human mind....yet they still affect the way we make decision.
So many people do not want to grow out of the fantasy and face reality.....which is the word of God...It is life and it pierces every soul into the deep secret of God. there we get to discover that every step we need to take in life and decide on making, all are back up in the word of GOD....

PLEASE i urge you to redefine your mindset, and focus on the right source of finalizing decisions in your life...i love you all real good

Truth story

TRUTH STORY
The Truth phase is really a hard message to pass through, especially when, that is the only option you have to build a great relationship.

The minute I decided to be truthful, I knew I had so many things at stake. I had to choose between being a liar, or telling the truth and loose the trust I once earned .
" I swallowed enough spit to be able to mutter the words out of my mouth, but how will I tell him that, I was lying all along. Telling him I love him, but also relaying the same to someone else. All because I could not stand a negative word or reply "NO" .

I do ask myself; if there is a need to hurt someone with the truth instead of trading them with the lie. But the truth is you may not find the answer till u get to actually do it.
I fought so hard but my conscience didn't let me overcome the hurt of being lied to in return. After a long struggle. I Summoned courage to tell the truth. But you see the truth is so hard to spit out, talk more or less swallow or be digested.

Why on earth is the truth so important, I asked myself , but I got the answer, the minute I knew I had been lied to in my negligence. It felt like I was shallow in my own voice, that the cry of my heart couldn't be heard. I sat down trying to reminisce where i missed it. But it all seemed like I was in the right track. So I ask myself;
"what went wrong"
"where did I miss the punctuations in the letter"
"was I a fool not to notice "
"or did it just happen because I was insensitive"
Diverse questions filled my head, unanswered theories of how it happen. Thesis and hypothesis of the situation, but only one concluding conclusion, which was that , " it hurts to be lied to, so DO NOT DO THE SAME"
The thought of how to hurt back came flooding in, but the truth still remain, you cant become a monster in a sheeps clothing. So I ask my self, where do I go from here?


ANONYMOUS